Valentine’s Day Special: Be my Valentine.. or Not!

February is regarded as the month of “Love” and we all know why….

Valentine’s day is around the corner, a day loved by some while a day dreaded by others.

Everywhere we can see Valentine’s day offers and promotions, personally my facebook home page is filled with “Gifts for her/him” posts, inbox is filled with Valentine’s day promotions/offers and party mails and the list goes on and on. While I believe that it is really sweet to spend the Valentine’s day with your loved one, the sad part is most Valentine’s day enthusiasts (who celebrate Valentines day in a grand scale) have forgotten the true meaning of Love.

It is evident that Valentine’s day has become very commercialized hence I shall re-phrase February as “commercially” the month of Love!

I have always thought that there was something not quite write about this Valentine’s day Theory (I am not anti-Valentine but I am anti-commercialized Valentine).

The pressure to plan and execute the Perfect Valentine’s for your loved one can drive a person crazy and once all that is done, if it was not up to the expected standard of the receiving party, your officially doomed! (Better Luck next year buddy!) References will be made to the mishaps that day throughout the year and you will be officially responsible for making the Day of Love and Happiness to a Day of Tragedy and Depression.

Even if things turn out to be super duper awesome at Valentine’s day celebrations, then there is pressure to make even more fantastic next year.. (Oh Hell NO!!)

Either way you lose (unless you and your better-half shares similar views on Valentine’s day).

I don’t even want to comment on the depression caused to the Singles (IMO The Lucky ones)¬† during Valentine’s season.

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Valentine’s day symbolizes Love. A day with great historic importance but sadly now it has become time of the year for Gift shops, florists and restaurants to increase their revenue.

May of us have forgotten that Love is NOT restricted to a specific day. You don’t need a specific day surprise her with a Rose or a day to show that you care.

Love is everything you want it to be.

It is a tight hug when you’re feeling low. It is simple “I miss you” when your better-half is away. It is a Good morning to show that your darling is the first person you remembered as soon as you woke up. It is promise that everything will be all right when evidently everything¬† is not alright. It is about looking forward to meeting your beloved. It can be anything to show how much you care.

Love is NOT appearing on the Valentines day with a dozen roses and chocolate boxes. Love is NOT taking her out for a fancy dinner on Valentines day to the most expensive restaurant in town. Love is NOT purchasing the biggest “Be My Valentine” card you can possibly find.

Because when you look back, all you will remember is how you felt, how happy you were and all the little things that means soo much!

Have an Awesome Valentine’s Day!

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A Walk Down the Memory Lane

As a teen when watching movies, I used to wish romance like that would blossom in my life as well. The passion and desire between two lovers used to keep me glued to the movies for hours and sometimes I would end up watching the movie several times.

One the movies which I really loved was The Notebook (this was based on a book written by well known Nicholas Sparks).  While it is evident that the story is very romantic and passionate, what struck me most was how the characters go down the memory lane.I truly wished that my life too would be filled with memories so that once in awhile I can visit them and live those moments again.

Memories need not always be sweet and loving, as time passes by even the most hated memories would probably be able to put a smile on your face and help you get through with your life because these events may have lead you to the one thing that makes you happy.

A walk down the memory lane is a healthy method to spice up your relationship with your partner. If both of you are currently going through a difficult time, and has forgotten what got the two of you together in the first place, take a moment from your schedule, take a walk in the park, go to the beach or the place where you first met her (or him). Try to remember the exact moments of that day, live that moment, speak up, tell how you really felt…. look into her eyes and think of all the beautiful memories that the two of you shared afterwards.

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I simply love to take a stroll down the memory lane because I love running into the those memories since it brought you to me and I love running into you.